Thursday, 16 April 2015

Checkout Buhari & Amaechi’s Handshake That Got People Talking In Nigeria (PHOTO)

President-elect, Gen Muhammadu Buhari and Rivers state
governor, Rotimi Amaechi were together recently.
They had a handshake that has gotten many Nigerians talking!
What do you make out from the handshake?

Mother Of Vice-President Elect Madam Olubisi Osinbajo Has A Message For You All (MUST READ)

Madam Olubisi Osinbajo, the mother of the Vice President-
elect, Prof. Yemi Osinbajo, said on Wednesday that God had
revealed to her that Nigeria’s lost glory would be restored.
Mrs Osinbajo, 80, said in Lagos that God also revealed to her
that the successful and positive change of government would
guarantee peace and tranquility in the country.
She said;
“I give God all the glory for the success of the elections. It
came to me that God said He will restore Nigeria and
everybody in the world will rejoice with Nigeria.
“Today, when I was praying, I saw this, do not sorrow, for the
joy of the Lord is your strength. That is what God said to
Nigeria.
“So, I don’t want to say anything than to thank God for what
is happening in Nigeria now, because it is just too marvelous.
“So, we have nothing to say than to thank God. We are proud
to be a Nigerian now.
Madam Osinbajo was born at Ibadan, Oyo State on Feb.16,
1933 to Thomas Aiyegbayo, from Osun State, while her mother
was from Ilaro, Ogun State.
She attended Durbar School in Oyo town for her primary
education and later went to Methodist School also in Oyo
town before she proceeded to Sagamu Girls School, Remo,
Ogun in 1946.
Madam Osinbajo later proceeded to Teacher’s Training College
in Sagamu and soon after completion of the programme, she
went back to the school to teach.

5th Memorial Concert For Late Music Star Dagrin To Hold This Month

Death, be not proud, though some have called thee mighty
and dreadful, for thou art not so; according to poet John
Donne.
I’m sure you have not forgotten late Nigerian rapper, Oladapo
Olaitan Olaonipekun popular known as Dagrin `lyrical werey’
will have a memorial concert organized to commemorate his
tragic exit.
His cousin Tee Blaq who is also an artiste and Eldar Records
have announced a concert to celebrate the memory of the
iconic rapper Dagrin, who rapped mostly in Yoruba, died on
April 22, 2010, eight days after crashing his car in front of
Alakara Police Station, Mushin, Lagos. five years ago.
The concert will take place exactly five years after his death
at Spice Route, Victoria Island. Da Grin is widely regarded as
the man who opened the doors of indigenous rappers in the
country. featuring; Olamide, Reminisce, Seriki, Lord of Ajasa,
YQ, Sossick, WondaBoy, BaseOne, JahBless, PoslyTD, Chinko
Ekun and CDQ.
His sophomore album C.E.O released in 2009 is regarded as a
classic.
Your memory live on sleep on bro….

Drake Wipes His Mouth After Getting a Serious Kiss From Madonna (Photos)

It Looks like the singer Madonna poured a lot of saliva into
Drake’s mouth when she pulled his head up to give him a kiss
or Maybe shes a Vampire. lol
Because this his reaction after the kiss was really serious. Am
sure Drake was checking for Blood.

This Is Definitely The Photo Of The Day LMAO!!

LMAO!! Could this be a selfie or what?
Just jumped on this photo and I decided to share it with you
all…..what do you think of this fam??

Man Gets Best Revenge Possible After Discovering His Wife IsCheating on him

Most times, we get to see stories on the Internet. whether its true or not, its good to pass around to everyone you know.

This is one of those stories… the story was Written by a jaded ex-husband, it details a glorious act of revenge taken on a lying, cheating wife upon the discovery of her affair with another man.

The hubby wanted to “discover” the affair in a way that would scar his soon-to-be ex-wife for life — and so, on her birthday and with the help of unsuspecting friends and family, he did just that.
She got exactly what she’d asked for.

Unfortunately, what happened after remains unknown, but judging by the husband’s gleeful storytelling, everything turned out exactly as he’d hoped.

Read the story Below:

So I had a feeling she was cheating, as she set off a lot of red flags. Constantly laughing and smiling when texting, saying it was just her mother when I asked. Needing to stay late every night after work. When I’d call in her co-workers said she left hours ago.

When I asked her what was going on she’d laugh it off and say it was just something they did to each other at the office all the time.

The last straw when I knew something was definitely up was when she went out “to get milk” at 11:30 at night and didn’t come back until 2 in the morning.

Now if there are any words of wisdom I can pass on to others in all my years of experience, it’s if you think your significant other is cheating, hire a private investigator.

They’re good at what they do and they will get some evidence that really helps in the later divorce.
Fast-track to her birthday, several months down the road.

Now I know what you’re thinking, why the hell did I wait months before I confronted her and did it really need to be on her birthday?

The answer to the first question is I wanted as much evidence as possible to hand off to my lawyer, as well as time to make arrangements to find a new place to live, etc. The answer to your second question is – of course it had to be on her birthday.

You see, after asking her what she wanted to do on her birthday this year she was rather insistant (sic) on me going out of town with my friends as she just had to work anyways and didn’t want to be reminded she was aging.

So I know something is up and after finding a bottle of champagne and two glasses hidden in my closet something in me snaps. So I do what any sensible man would have done.

I leave and go to my friends house pretending like I am going out of town. While there I call up her 
mother, father, sister and several of her friends.

I tell them how I want to give her a big surprise by sneaking into our room with party streamers, kazoos and a big cake with candles. Sounds fun, right?! Well, boy was it.

I had everyone meet me outside our apartment at 8:30 in the morning. We all pile in the elevator (about 8 of us in total); her mother is holding the cake and I’m reminding everyone to be as quiet as they can be.

I put my key in and unlock the door; we all sneak in and make our way down the hall towards the bedroom. Each holding a kazoo and her mom holding the cake grinning from ear to ear.
Well as I throw open the door, we all yell surprise!

But the surprise was on us and there was my wife, b**t naked with her lover staring at us wide eyed. Mom drops the cake, sister screams, father begins to shout.

I pretend like I’m horrified to which her friends try to push everyone out while yelling at her. My wife, excuse me, ex-wife is sobbing and screaming how could I while the lover is desperately trying to put his pants on while running out of the place.

Needless to say, it was one of the best birthday presents I have ever given.

Wednesday, 15 April 2015

HOW TO KEEP A LONG DISTANCERELATIONSHIP


Many people are in a dating relationship, but this relationship sooner or later ends up immediately after the emergence of distance. This may be caused by, probably the transfer or relocation of one of the partners. This mostly occurs due to certain circumstances such as, business trip, further studies, and work. I once experience what you feel and understand the pains, loneliness, and how this sometimes make life so depressing for you.

But, you’ll have to trust what I’m about to say, before giving it up. Following my advice will help you build a strong relationship between you and your partner no matter the distance. I must confess, it was tough for me when she was not by my side all the time, especially when I needed her most. But by following the points which I shall explain the next paragraphs, our relationship became stronger and even better.

It is obvious that, being in touch with your partner is a key to keeping your relationship healthy .
Communicating with your partner about what you feel, either good or bad and also sharing concern and depressions with your partner is very essential in a long distance relationship. Apart from your usual text messages and phone call, believe me, hand written postcards and letters makes your partner to always feel more personal than emails and texts. Always try to be creative by sending poems, drawings and photos to your partner to hold onto. But you must also try not to exaggerate the way you communicate with your partner.

You need to fully trust your partner. Give your partner that freedom or chance to explore other aspects of life and try to resist the temptation of jealousy, being suspicious and accusations. Such behaviors will only make you less attractive and unappetizing in the eyes of your partner and this has a great effect on your long distance relationship. But trusting your partner only leads you to a happier and healthier relationship.

You have to exercise some patience, probably because you won’t be speaking to each other as often as it used to be. You will encounter some missed calls and unanswered texts. These are some things you just need to be acquainted with. But what you should remember is that, you shouldn’t spend your time waiting for a message to pop up in your inbox from your partner. The best way for an impatient person to calm his/her anxiety is by keeping his or herself busy. This can be done by hanging out with friends or doing some other thing you like doing.
Apart from seeing your partner during the holidays, make efforts to pay him/her a visit as often as possible and make sure you’ve nothing doing when your partner is around. Tell your families and friends you are officially unavailable during that period you’re with your sweetie. IF you don’t create time and energy to see each other, then you may eventually drift apart. No matter how strong your love is , you still need some physical contact so as to promote your distance relationship.

Don’t center your life so much on your partner. This may cause you to become depressed, frustrated and confused when your partner is not around you. Instead use this separation as an opportunity to ensure you achieve your goals and focus on your life, career, schooling or whatever without distraction.

Both of you must dedicate yourself equally and put in as much time and energy needed into your relationship. This is to avoid a one-sided relationship, because it is very common with long distance relationships. You know your partner than any other person, so you should be able to make him/her become very dedicated to the relationship by using soft and romantic words and also proving to him/her that you are dedicated to the relationship with your actions.

What do you think being in a distance relationship is all about? Are you currently in one?

Leave a comment below and don’t forget to share this with a caring friend. Thanks for being a royal reader.

For Ladies Only! SEE The 8 Things You Don’t Know About Postinor 2

As I was going through my “ashana’s” bag some days ago and
I saw three packets of POSTINOR 2 in it , I was very curious to
actually know if this drug had very severe side effects to a lady
so i consulted my real girlfriend “google. com” some hours later.
Postinor 2 is a medication to prevent pregnancy if you shine
the sperm into the ovary, whether intentional or not.
It can prevent pregnancy 95% in the first 24 hours after
intercourse, it is used as a form of emergency contraception
(more commonly known as a morning after pill).
Postinor-2 is formulated to function in a manner similar to the
female hormone progesterone allowing
for prevention of pregnancy if taken within a reasonable period
of time.
Generally, it is recommended that Postinor-2 be taken no later
than three days after having unprotected s*x.
EFFECTS OF POSTINOR 2
1) When taken in the middle of the menstrual cycle, the
preparation may inhibit ovulation.
2) The pill can cause changes in the menstrual cycle in the
lady. Your next period could start earlier or later than expected
and flow can be lighter or
heavier than normal.
3) It can cause nauseating feeling which occurs in
approximately 25% of users vomiting
4) It can also bring about bleeding disturbances in some
cases, 2-3 days following tablet ingestion
5) Sometimes it can cause breast tenderness, headache,
dizziness, fatigue.
6) In the majority of cases the next period starts as expected
or somewhat earlier, if the period is more than 7 days late it is
recommended to perform a pregnancy test.
7) In case of prolonged or heavy bleeding, gynaecological
examinations is advised.
8) If the user has a reported case of asthma, heart failure,
hypertension, migraine, epilepsy, renal impairment, diabetes
mellitus, hyperlipidaemia,
depression, and / or stroke, the preparation may be used
exclusively in the above mentioned emergency cases. it is not
appropriate for regular use.
The manufacturer of the emergency contraceptive offers the
efficiency of the pill when it is taken as directed.
Logically, the longer the interval
between unprotected s*x and taking the pill, the decrease in
how effective it will be. It is estimated that Postinor-2 will
prevent 85% of expected pregnancies.
95% of expected pregnancies will be prevented if taken within
the first 24 hours.
So I employ every guy to always walk around with postinor2
because you never know when you will have a match because
you don’t want to receive that “We need to Talk” text after 7
weeks.

MEN: PLEASE DON'T EVER CONSIDERMARRYING THESE 10 TYPES OFWOMEN...#KILLER FACTS

1. The Chatterbox
This is the woman who never shuts up, barely stopping to breathe. Seemingly only concerned about what is going on in her life, she always has to make a comment about everything and dominates conversations.

2. The Desperate Chick
This type of woman will seem fantastic at first, until she starts talking about your wedding location, how many kids she wants and the name of your future dog–right after the first date! When a woman advances WAY faster than normal,watch out. She NEEDS a man so bad that she’s willing to put anybody in that slot, even the homeless guy on the corner.

3. The Overly-Critical Woman
Anything you do for this type of woman is simply not good enough. Nothing seems to work unless it is done according to her standards. Anything that is said by anyone will be quickly taken out of context to become some sort of insult or some reason to wage war against the world. This type of woman has plenty of emotional baggage and will make you an angry and bitter person as there will be nothing but misery with her.

4. The Bimbo
This type of woman can’t obtain a GED but has managed to secure a PhD in the science of the bedroom. This is an intellectually challenged woman who looks great but, in all honesty, shouldn’t open her mouth. Her skills are unquestionably only rooted in the physical realm and unless you’re just after one-night stands, you do not want to bring a stupid girl home to meet Mom and Dad. The majority of girls you see on the streets everyday fall into this category,

5. The High Maintenance Chick
If this type of woman breaks a nail, she expects you to drop everything you’re doing to drive her to the salon immediately. Her daddy always told her she was a princess and she expects to be treated like one at all times. She has expensive taste and expects you to shower her with only the best things and take her out to posh places on a regular basis. If you don’t have a lot of money and a penchant for luxury, don’t even bother.

6. The Clingy Girl
This woman is a nuisance who can’t go anywhere or do anything without the company of her man. She’ll adopt your interests, calls 20 times a day and fly off the handle anytime she’s not around to monitor your behavior. This type of woman will smother any chance of you missing her by insisting that you spend every waking moment with her, refusing to let you go out with the boys or spend any significant amount of time with anyone else.

7. The Baby’s Mama
This woman has a great physique, great personality and her toes are pretty too! There’s only one problem–she’s got a pretty large amount of children with assorted “baby-daddy’s”, and when women like this get desperate, any and every guy has the potential to be “daddy.” This woman got knocked up by somebody that she was supposedly in love with, and not only is she a bad judge of character, she’s GROSSLY irresponsible. The same guys that are “jerks” now are the same guys she once thought the world of and had unprotected sex with.

8. The Gold Digger
The Gold-Digger will compliment you on your expensive watch, ask you what kind of car you drive, what you do for a living, where you live and so on. Like the high maintenance woman, the Gold Digger is basically looking for a sugar daddy, she’ll size you up within the first five minutes and drop you just as quickly if your cash flow runs out and you can’t take her shopping anymore. These types of women will just suck your wallet dry and leave you emasculated. Fortunately, you can usually see this type coming from a mile away. She wants to write out the names of all her designer items and post it on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook.

9. The Club Girl
Club girls are nothing more than fantasy women who have been practically living in bars and clubs since they hit the legal drinking age. They have beautiful faces with full lips, big doe eyes, great legs, and all the curves you could ever ask for. The problem in dating these women is that they love to wear clothes that show off their great assets not just to you, but to every Tom, man-hood and Harry on the street. A woman like this may be carefree and wild; however, once you take a closer look, you’ll realize that her entire life is a party and most nights will end with her puking in your car. Or waking up hungover, in some guy’s bed in the morning.

10. The Feminist
This type of woman can never be pleased by a man and she believes that men are the cause of all the pains and suffering of society. It is her strong belief that women are much more intelligent than men and are capable of doing things “the right way”. You don’t want to waste any time with this type of woman because anything that you do willalways be negative to her. 

Ladies, your take on this article?

7 WORKING TIPS TO MAKE‘ FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS ’ACTUALLY WORK

A friends with benefits (or FWB) is possible one of the best kinds of relationships. It’s a friend you can casually have some great, meaningless sex with, without things getting awkward – at least in theory.

Here’s 8 ways to make your FWB actually work without any drama or friendship fall-outs.

1. Find someone you’ve already friend-zoned
Go for a guy that you already think is hot, but have zero feelings for – at all.
If you’ve already heard him fart, have been friends with his ex-girlfriends, and know his flaws, you’ll be able to put feelings on the shelf and just enjoy a friendly casual hookup.

2. Establish rules
A FWB is all about fun, but that doesn’t mean someone won’t get hurt.
Set boundaries in advance to avoid any hurt feelings.
Maybe you don’t want to know about the other people they’re sleeping with, or mutual friends are off the table.
Keep it clear, and stick to it.

3. Remember you’re not dating
Don’t go on dates, check in daily, send good morning texts, or go out to dinner.
Just order Dominoes, have a beer, and hang out. That’s it!

4. Date other people
Still keep looking for Mr Right while you have fun with Mr Right Now.
It’ll keep you in the dating game so you don’t get attached, and you’ll still be getting your sexual needs met so you never feel desperate or thirsty.
Don’t forget, you’re still on the hunt for THIS guy

5. Remember your FWB is not your soul mate
You might have a great friendship, but you friend zoned him for a reason.
Remember you signed up for casual fun.
If you enjoy each other, that’s a good thing – but remember this won’t end like a rom com.

6. Expect it to end
Typically, FWBs tend to end when one person starts to find their perfect someone.
Know that this relationship is fun and temporary, and celebrate when it’s time to move on.

7. Be open, honest and cautious
If you start to develop feelings, be honest with yourself and your FWB.
Could they feel the same way? Or is there no chance?
Approach the topic cautiously and casually to feel them out, but know that it may not be reciprocated.

"HOW MUCH IS NEEDED TO PLAN A SMALL WEDDING INNIGERIA?"

I get asked this question a whole lot. I personally think that it is a wrong question to ask. Why? For one, I don't know how much you earn and do not run your accounts. Instead, I will suggest you ask something in line of: I have X amount, how can I make it work for a wedding?

One thing you should know is that no matter how much you have, you can still have a great wedding if you are realistic on your expectations. You can't have it all but you can have it great.
First thing first, come up with a budget.

Read my article here on "Creating the wedding budget" for tips on how to create the wedding budget.

THE N500,000 BUDGET WEDDING IN NIGERIA

The first thing is to have a realistic guest list. You can't have N500,000 and want to host 500 people unless you don't want to feed them. Read here on how to trim your wedding guest list.

For the N500,000 wedding, the bride had prioritized what was important to her, which was her makeup and the feeding. The couple agreed on 100 guests. I did not plan the wedding, neither did I coordinate. WHAT DID I DO? During the consultation, which took place about 6 months to the wedding just after their introduction, I advised them on how and where to cut costs and also introduced some vendors to them. The good thing was, they were open to my opinions and it made everything much easier.

Here is the breakdown for the N500,000 wedding

WEDDING DRESS AND BRIDAL ACCESSORIES- N15,000.

WEDDING SHOES- she wore a silver shoe she already had. (She didn't change into a reception dress)

WEDDING RINGS (bride and groom)- N6,500. (You can always buy more expensive rings after the wedding when you have more money)

GROOM'S OUTFIT- 5,000 (wore a suit and shoe he already had, so he only bought a shirt and tie)

BRIDAL HAIR AND NAILS- N3,500 (permed her hair and styled it into a tight bun, the doughnut way)

MAKEUP (just bride)- N30,000

INVITATION CARDS -BULK SMS- N1,000

RECEPTION VENUE (open field) -N50, 000

RENTALS OF TABLES, CHAIRS AND CANOPIES- N20,000

DECORATION- N40,000

DJ- N30,000 (They didn't use a live band. The DJ played all kinds of songs even for the older generation)

CAKE- N30,000 - 3 tiers of cake

FOOD- N85,000 (N850 per plate, jollof and fried rice, amala, moin moin and 2 pieces of meat; with 5 servers, chaffing dishes, plates and cutlery) Caterer: Incredible Edibles

DRINKS- N30,000 (water, soft drinks, with drums and ice blocks)

PHOTOGRAPHY- N80,000 (full event coverage, one photobook, pre-wedding shoot, one DVD of all the pictures)

Photographer: Xtrm Creations

MC- friend of the groom N0.00

SOUVENIRS- N25,000

5 USHERS- N32,500

EVENT COORDINATION (N7,000)- La' Heiress trained two of the bride's sisters on what they needed to do a few weeks to the wedding and also on the wedding day.

TOTAL COST- N490,500

Was it a successful wedding? Yes! Trust me when I tell you that it was hell getting some of the vendors that were willing to work with the prices but that is our job and that is where we come in.

http://justbudgetweddings.blogspot.com/2015/03/how-to-achieve-n500000-budget-wedding.html?utm_source=BP_recent

Content Marketing Through Storytelling

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