Many people
are in a dating relationship, but this relationship sooner or later ends up
immediately after the emergence of distance. This may be caused by, probably
the transfer or relocation of one of the partners. This mostly occurs due to certain
circumstances such as, business trip, further studies, and work. I once
experience what you feel and understand the pains, loneliness, and how this
sometimes make life so depressing for you.
But, you’ll
have to trust what I’m about to say, before giving it up. Following my advice
will help you build a strong relationship between you and your partner no
matter the distance. I must confess, it was tough for me when she was not by my
side all the time, especially when I needed her most. But by following the
points which I shall explain the next paragraphs, our relationship became
stronger and even better.
It is
obvious that, being in touch with your partner is a key to keeping your
relationship healthy .
Communicating
with your partner about what you feel, either good or bad and also sharing
concern and depressions with your partner is very essential in a long distance
relationship. Apart from your usual text messages and phone call, believe me, hand
written postcards and letters makes your partner to always feel more personal
than emails and texts. Always try to be creative by sending poems, drawings and
photos to your partner to hold onto. But you must also try not to exaggerate the
way you communicate with your partner.
You need to
fully trust your partner. Give your partner that freedom or chance to explore
other aspects of life and try to resist the temptation of jealousy, being suspicious
and accusations. Such behaviors will only make you less attractive and unappetizing
in the eyes of your partner and this has a great effect on your long distance relationship.
But trusting your partner only leads you to a happier and healthier
relationship.
You have to
exercise some patience, probably because you won’t be speaking to each other as
often as it used to be. You will encounter some missed calls and unanswered
texts. These are some things you just need to be acquainted with. But what you
should remember is that, you shouldn’t spend your time waiting for a message to
pop up in your inbox from your partner. The best way for an impatient person to
calm his/her anxiety is by keeping his or herself busy. This can be done by hanging
out with friends or doing some other thing you like doing.
Apart from
seeing your partner during the holidays, make efforts to pay him/her a visit as
often as possible and make sure you’ve nothing doing when your partner is
around. Tell your families and friends you are officially unavailable during
that period you’re with your sweetie. IF you don’t create time and energy to
see each other, then you may eventually drift apart. No matter how strong your
love is , you still need some physical contact so as to promote your distance relationship.
Don’t center
your life so much on your partner. This may cause you to become depressed, frustrated
and confused when your partner is not around you. Instead use this separation
as an opportunity to ensure you achieve your goals and focus on your life,
career, schooling or whatever without distraction.
Both of you
must dedicate yourself equally and put in as much time and energy needed into
your relationship. This is to avoid a one-sided relationship, because it is
very common with long distance relationships. You know your partner than any
other person, so you should be able to make him/her become very dedicated to
the relationship by using soft and romantic words and also proving to him/her
that you are dedicated to the relationship with your actions.
What do you
think being in a distance relationship is all about? Are you currently in one?
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